And girls, keep the work questions brief and casual. You can find out all the facts in the world later, if there’s chemistry.
It shouldn’t come across like a Spanish Inquisition! Rather than being on autopilot and fast-forwarding to what you will say next, make an effort to really stop and listen. Right now the challenge is to unearth the essence of the person.
You have to remember at the same time your meeting someone new, they will also have another date straight after you.
The answer to this lies in the questions you ask but 'what questions do you ask?
Let the conversation follow its natural course and once your flirt-mate’s said their piece – take the time to respond thoughtfully. Keep up great eye-contact and lots of responsive looks and nods.
Interject once they’re finished, rather than interrupting with your (more interesting! And when the time is right, reveal a little about yourself and then flip the spotlight back to them.
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