That’s right, actual physical contact is probably as crucial to success as is the initial approach and the conversation that follows because of this: You build emotional rapport as the conversation goes on – a mental connection – she becomes comfortable with you emotionally.
You must establish that physical contact, otherwise comfort on a physical level never starts to develop.
So to repeat – you need to touch her often; just a quick pat on the hand or the arm or the shoulder; not a lingering touch – that will come later – just a quick, casual tap as if you are “talking” with your hands and maybe emphasizing a point.
This sets the stage for a physical relationship and that is critical to into the relationship.
You know – some guys are just lucky with the ladies – we’ve all seen them, but: It seems like they just walk into some setting and scope it out.