Don’t immediately start talking about adult toys or send her a “selfie” at the gym all pumped up post workout.
Make sure that you add just a lick of sass to your pre-meet up messages.
Pretty much everyone loves talking about “numero uno” – so give your partner an opportunity to start gabbing away!
They seem nice enough, but you are only seeing what they want you to see. So you have to set your boundaries almost immediately when you’re chatting online and before you’ve met someone in person and decided to move further.
You know absolutely nothing about them or their lifestyle. Setting your boundaries means that you don’t give out personal identifiable information about you.
You can give a general idea about where you live (for example, you live in the city center).
You can give a general idea about where you work and what you do, but don’t be specific about which office building you’re in. It really depends how comfortable you are with the idea of a stranger having your number (and yes they are a stranger).
She runs the website where she makes the art of seduction look easy peasy.