In a nutshell, be mature enough to have your shit together but be young enough that you still want to have fun and enjoy life’s thrills.” While you’re an older guy and your younger woman wants to be inspired by your life experience and maturity, she doesn’t want to follow you on your path.
They want you to be a confident and established person.
“Most of the men I’ve dated have been older,” says Shekinah, 30. Depending on your age I’m looking for a certain level of maturity, someone I can learn from, someone looking to have a long-term relationship, and someone that knows who he is.” This is a common mistake.
The reality is that younger women will have expectations about how you should act.
They don’t want to be your play toy as you relive your youth.
I like older men because typically they have already figured a few things out, generally are more financially stable, know what they want to do with their lives, and are knowingly dating someone younger because typically they want someone a bit spontaneous. I want to be spoiled but not necessarily with material goods.