The questions you should ask if that happens to you include: “What do you want to do?
Eleven years back, we were in our twenties, wild, free, and stupid.
Mine weren’t too realistic, but his were overly ambitious. Nine years later, we were getting divorced over “compatibility” issues.
When it got dark, we’d sit under yellow lights and play a game of scrabble. Who would’ve thought that the same person I spent almost half my life with, doing things that once upon a time made us go bananas, was now a person I could barely stand.
Now, it dawned on me that separation was better and that I was better off without him in my life. I didn’t know how to break it to him that I was done with him, once and for all.