One: They are convinced that Asian women would rather go out with white men. Are men with Asian ethnic origins justified in feeling anxious these racial preferences are actually operating in North American dating?
Since many of these sites are hosted in countries where the laws may not specifically prohibit any kind of digital con, individual lawsuits are difficult to bring up and require diplomatic and international legal navigation that turns out to be more trouble than it’s worth.
That being said, there are some great sites out there that are legitimately for getting laid and meeting women.
Many Asian men veer back and forth between relational extremes, Lee said.
On one hand, many shyly fear they’re seen as “geeks.” On the other, they jump in to the dating scene with “false bravado” and unrealistic fantasies.
In essence, their actual user base consists solely of duped males. The process was to send as many messages to various members on the site and see what kind of response we got. That is to say, we avoided desperate looking fat girls and other easy lays.