The guys have to read through 50 long-winded profiles of women whose profile photos they are attracted to.
Ask any man if he would be flattered if an attractive woman wrote to him first, and he will tell you he would be thrilled.
The male ego likes to know a woman can be attracted to him.
The male ego also does not want to be rejected by sending hundreds of outbound emails to women each week. Men also secretly wish a woman would write a real email to them instead of sending a wink or flirt, which they view as passive aggressive. Whether you are a match or not, you are taking control over your dating life and may have the opportunity to meet the man of your dreams.
When a woman lies to you, she is not only being dishonest.