It can be fun with guys of the same age, but most often foreign men aged 35-40 wish to find a woman to have a child together. I used to think that [the gap should be] 3 years with the male older. Before my husband I had relationships with males of the same age and 5 years older, but it wasn’t the same.
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The privilege of similar-aged couples is that they might rarely think about this question, but it's a struggle for adult couples, especially as they begin to form a relationship, to understand how their age difference may affect their relationship. Age-gap trends in American adult heterosexual couples are well documented: The Pew Research Center analyzed data from the 2013 American Community Survey and found that, even though most heterosexual Americans (78-80 percent) choose partners who are about their same age when they marry for the first time (that is, within 5 years), many are not.
In age-gap couples, men are more apt to have a younger than an older spouse, with 10 percent having a spouse who is six-to-nine years younger, and 5 percent marrying a woman 10 or more years younger.
But this also depends on the looks, if the man looks like your dad and a grandfather for your child, then I think the woman will feel discomfort. An acceptable age difference is up to 5 years if he is younger, and if he is older, then 10 years. My ex-husband was 8 years younger than me, but there was no visual difference.
Guys of the same age can look very different, the most important that the couple has compatibility in all important areas. Just one thing that I really was feeling, the difference in life values and experiences, this is hard to hide. The age difference should be 12 years maximum, the man older. Somehow I got more mature with them and my views on life changed.
Not only the mental connection, but also the sexual attraction to each other. There are some very interesting young guys, and there are empty and infantile at 50. I want a man minimum 7 years older and up to 15 years difference is OK. It happened that I registered on the site at the age of 20, and I didn’t write to men myself. Now I don’t want to communicate with guys who were born the same year as myself, I don’t understand them and consider them silly.